Do you have a feeling that you are not any longer enamored with your girlfriend? What's more, you are choosing to wind up everything except for at any rate to make it less shocking? Is there such a correct method to leave her?
Oh, breaking up with somebody who is so attached to you is like dying temporarily – it is a horrible act of injustice. Gratefully, there are some careful methods to say goodbye to a woman you have once loved and is still in love with you. Although, the strategies are not a guarantee to not cause pain; but, at least, there are ways to do it gently. Let me share my insights on this.
Come clean. It is all the more hurting if you become dishonest to your girlfriend. Men might say they need to concentrate on their studies they can’t give greater quality time for the relationship. To hell with those usual scripts that justifies your decision to break-up.
Speak less yet clear and direct. In as much as you would want your girlfriend not to feel terrible, you will really cause her agony because she still loves you. There is no other best option to do it but to tell her face to face gently. In this way, make sure to have fewer words so as not bring about more missteps. Be direct and do not give too many excuses that are unbelievable. Tell her honestly that the relationship will not work out anymore. Because when the cause of break up is uncertain, the women will have a hard time letting go.
Do not blame her for the break-up. Regardless if the reason for your change of heart is her reckless attitude, never disclose to her that it was the reason she ended up losing you. You might have found someone better than her, but do not ever tell her how lovely is the newly found love. Do not compare them on her face because it will only aggravate the circumstance.
No to false reassurances. Sometimes men tend to tell their girlfriends “I just need time to think” and “everything will be okay soon because you are still the one” when in truth, you know that it is the final goodbye. He might even go to bed with her with too much passion just to portray that there is still the fire of love. The woman would say “I can still feel the love.” But in reality, the man was thinking, “I just want to let her feel I still cared for the last time.” Please stop ending your words with, “Perhaps if we are truly for each other, then destiny will find ways for us to meet in the future.”
I guess men who fall out of love would not want to further hurt their girlfriends. But in a relationship, sometimes you need to decide best of breaking up even if it hurts her to be fair.
Yes, men still stay with their girlfriends who they are not in love with because they are cowards to decide on difficult decisions. They don’t break up with their present girlfriends in hell but at the same time welcomes a newly discovered love in heaven. This, I say is both unreasonable with the two women.
For women, please stay in a relationship you do not have to chase after. You deserve respect and great love. And if your boyfriend falls out of love, learn to accept that you can’t force a man to stay with you. Be a peace lover, give him the freedom to choose who he wants to be with.
Respect and be kinder to yourself. And begin by letting go of a boyfriend who chooses not to stay with you!