A little out-of-the-way Holiday tale
By Beverly Irene M. Navarra
SHE’S a lot thinner than the bent old woman faltering in her steps in that advertisement against osteoporosis, and worse: At 89, Visitacion “Bising” Babang doesn’t even have a cane to support her as she scoops out her meal from the streets, her arms reaching out for alms.
When she called out at jeepney driver stopping near her to spare her a peso coin, he didn’t even glance at her. “Mo-uli na ko,” she told me, catching her breath. Obviously hungry, she bought three candies for herself.
A widow, Lola Bising says she has a shack in barangay Oprra that she shares with her seven children and their families. When asked why she’s on the streets, she answered. “Wala man ko magsuroy-suroy, nangita man ko’g kwarta para pang-kaon.” I accompanied her to her house nestled at a riverside.
From the main road, it took almost a kilometer to reach her place. Amazing, indeed, that Lola Bising could still walk this far in spite of her weak knees. Alay, her fortysomething daughter, explains that her mother would always find time to beg, particularly in the Capitol area, even if they’ve been dissuading her.
When asked why they can’t stop Lola Bising from going to the streets, Kisses, one of her grandchildren, answered that she’s hardheaded at times. Obviously annoyed at my inquiries about Lola Bising, he sounded miffed about her. Wait till you get old yourself, thus I wanted to tell him.
HAVING lived in the city practically all my life, I have always considered Carmen, 42 kilometers up north, as my hometown. I never grew up there except to spend what seemed to be endless summers during school breaks.