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Love is really blind

Posted by admin On February - 14 - 2009

Is love reallove-is-blindly blind (“love is blind” is part of a quotation from The Merchant of Venice)? Apparently, it is yes, U.S. researchers reported on Tuesday.

College students who reported they were in love were less likely to take careful notice of other attractive men or women, the team at the University of California Los Angeles (Ucla) and dating Web site eHarmony found.

“Feeling love for your romantic partner appears to make everybody else less attractive, and the emotion appears to work in very specific ways in enabling you to push thoughts of that tempting other out of your mind,” said Gian Gonzaga of eHarmony, whose study is published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior.

The study asked 120 heterosexual undergraduates in committed relationships to examine photographs of attractive members of the opposite sex from an eHarmony Web site. They were asked to choose the most attractive photos, and write an essay either about their current romantic partner, or the subject of their choice, Reuters reported.

While writing, the students were asked to forget the “hotties” from the Web site, but told to put a check in the margins if they did happen to think of the attractive photos.

The volunteers who wrote about their partners were six times less likely to admit to thinking of the attractive others than volunteers who wrote about random subjects.

And later asked to recall the cuties in the pictures, the students who wrote about their lovers remembered fewer details about the physical appearance of the attractive strangers. (from Sun.Star Cebu)

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If Maybe
Lyrics by Johannes Jumadla
Music by Johannes Jumadla

I
If I was so brave I'd tell you how I feel
You would have known all the love I knew
If I was so bold I'd show you all this mixed
Emotions I keep when I see your face

II
If I had the courage to walk out to you
I would have followed every step you make
If I had the courage to speak out to you
you would have heard what my heart would say

chorus
...and maybe, just maybe you will love me too
in the way, the way that i do
...and maybe, just maybe you will love me too
and that's the way, the way that we do


III
if I had the courage to break all this chains
I would have crossed the walls that were built in between
If I knew exactly what I had to do
Then you might have fallen, fallen for me to

repeat chorus

bridge
And what if you already do
Would you have to fade away?
And what if you felt the same
Would you have to let it die?

Adlib
Then repeat chorus

coda
And maybe... just maybe...
I know you do...
...Love me too


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Johannes is a teacher by profession. But his passion for music has made him a natural songwriter. With love as an inspiration, he finds pleasure in composing songs and dedicating this to his special someones. Take a peek at Johannes's works. Visit his site at http://johannsgrave.multiply.com/

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This is the Sun.Star Network Online’s section for Valentines. Let your special someones, family, and friends feel how important they are. Express your love through pictures, videos, and poems and send them to us. Help other couples plan out their romantic dates by posting here suggestions for places to go, restaurants to dine, or gift ideas. For contributions, e-mail us at sunnex1(at)sunstar(dot)com(dot)ph, sunnex(at)sunstar(dot)com(dot)ph, and sunnexdesk(at)yahoo(dot)com.