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Monday, June 21, 2010

Dear Papa Joe

Hi! Good day! Just call me Ms. Confused. Obviously, from the codename I used, confused gyud kaayo ko ron. Like most of your listeners and readers who seek for your advice, my problem is about my lovelife.

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I met Mr. Mistake late last year. We became an item early this year. I was happy with the relationship although it lasted for barely a month. I've never been so happy in my whole life when I'm with him. Pero i know for a fact nga no matter how happy we are with each other, we couldn't end up together because of a certain reason which hinders our love. We didn't have a formal break up. Our relationship just ended because he cut our communication. He doesn't answer my calls and doesn't reply on my text messages. I don't know his reasons why he did it.

I put an end to the relationship and entertain suitors. Although the relationship has ended, I know in my heart that I still love and longed for him to come back. For 2 months without communication with Mr. Mistake, I met Mr. Righteous. Mr. Righteous courted me for almost 2 months. Ako siyang gisugot hoping nga makalimtan nako si Mr. Mistake and I could also learn to love him back in the process. I know sayop gyud ang akong gibuhat.

Right now, nag-cool off mi ni Mr. Righteous because of some issues nga mabaw ra gyud kaayo pero nag-decide lang ko nga mag-cool off lang sa mi aron duna koy time pag-think of these things that are happening to me right now. Should I continue ba the relationship with Mr. Righteous bisan wala koy love niya kay love pa gihapon nako si Mr. Mistake? Sa time nga nag-cool off mi ni Mr. Righteous, ni-communicate og balik si Mr. Mistake. He wants me back kuno. I don't know if he's aware nga naa koy BF. Karon, I don't know ako ba siyang balikan? I love him. Pero I know wala'y paingnan ang among relationship. We couldn't end up together. Naglibog ko kinsa ang akong pillion.

Most of my friends told me nga adto kuno ko asa ko happy. I am happy with Mr. Mistake pero dili mi pwede. Kon adto ko ni Mr. Righteous, okay kaayo siya sa akong family. Wala gyuy problema kon siya akong pillion. Gawas lang nga wala koy love niya. Pero basin ma-develop ra ko niya. Pero what if dili? I really really need your advice.

MS. CONFUSED

Ms. Confused ,

Hello! Direct to the point. Maybe the problem is with you, wala nila. Basin naa nimo. Though wala nimo gisulti ang rason ngano di mo mo end together, I guess minyo siya. Open your mind from the biases sa imong opinion. When you were lonely God provided you with Mr. Righteous and made you realize to answer him in two months. It is not about learning to love but acceptance of any form of love without comparison. You said ga-cool off mo. Well, it's time to check yourself. God bless!

PAPA JOE