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Thursday, February 24, 2005
Prohhorov: What is love without time?
By Gina Prohhorov
Great potentials
Since February is love month, let me continue the theme on love.
After my last article, so many texted me their questions on love and relationships.
One asked how does she know she is loved? Well, the moment the guy is always giving excuses for not being around is a bad sign. One guy sweet talks her girlfriend saying how much he loves her but just does not have time to visit her.
Remember there is always time for everything. There is time for work.
There is time for loved ones. Well, if you are loved…you are in the list but if not, then why should someone spend time with you? As simple as that.
Even if a girl lives in Danao, the moment a guy falls truly in love with her, he will try to bring her home and visit her on weekends. If not, he just likes you but does not love you enough to go through the hassle of traveling far. Grabi traffic, no?
If someone says “no time” to you, that means you are not that important.
You are not worth the time. Painful? Yes, but better realize early than wait for what…a year or two years? There is only ONE life. Spend it wisely.
How can you develop a relationship with just one party interested. It takes two to go through it. But never force a guy to go into a relationship. You will regret it. A man must love a woman more (well, just to be safe) than a woman loving a man more. Why? Because a woman can learn to love and will remain loyal while a man who does not really wholeheartedly love a woman , will easily play around.
Of course, some may say “ I do not care but I really love him so much”. Well, go ahead and spend your nights crying alone in misery. But do not blame anyone else except yourself.
Be smart. Your life should have more beautiful moments than sad ones. If you can prepare for more fruitful events in your life, that would be positive and enriching.
Now if you made a mistake, then it is never too late to get out of the relationship and start anew.
Many women are so scared to say goodbye. Why? Perhaps they do not believe in themselves anymore. The relationship made them so dependent on that man who did not support them at all.
It is wonderful to have somebody who supports your development while both of you fall in love each day. Is it not that careers sometimes get in the way.?
Or social contacts become the start of jealousy? It is rare to find someone secure who can be happy to see you bloom and grow.
Make sure you have someone like that. If not, think what to do. Make your choice. Keep something or someone that makes you happy. But it has to be a situation that both of you are happy about, not only him and not only you.
That is how simple and complex relationships are.
Well, if you find your soulmate, then you are lucky! Well, I have one that is why I am free to take time to write articles for Cebu even if I am based in Subic.
If you really love, take time. It is worth it. Only if she or he is worth your time! Good luck!
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(February 24, 2005 issue)
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