BEFORE I started running, I preferred to just sit in my room and use my computer or watch the television or just spend time with my kids indoors. I was hardly an active person, perhaps because I grew up suffering from asthma attacks and always felt that indoor exercises or going to the gym were just too boring for me.
I couldn’t stand doing the same thing each day, over and over again. My only exercise, if you could call it one, was playing with my kids and carrying our then one-year-old baby—Gio.
You can just imagine how difficult it was to understand the joy my husband was getting from running. It was totally boring! I have been trying to understand him since Yong started joining fun runs and races in late 2006 and why he was super into it.
My main goal was to discourage him!
He was busy being a doctor by day but he still found time to run and train at night for the Pasig International Marathon in 2007. He trained almost every night and still managed some bonding time with us. I could not believe it!
Sunday was a no-running-day for him because I insisted that it’s the only day he could really spend the whole day with us, the only day that he could sleep straight without having to wake up early for work.
He joined the New York ING Marathon in November of 2007. I went with him and I remember being so scared and worried since he had a goal 4 hours and 30 minutes. I reminded him not to be so competitive and to just enjoy his run.
I kept on telling him, “You’re an ophthalmologist and not an athlete!” (Even healthy runners have died joining full and even half marathons!)
He clocked in at 4 hours and 19! Even better than his target time.
My story as a runner began in October of 2008. I was getting bored with my usual diet, eating the same food (camote, potatoes and carrots) everyday. Sunday was my “pig-out day” and I would gain back all the weight that I lost that whole week on that very same day.
Feeling weak, depriving myself of eating delicious food, I thought: I had to do something and exercise had to be the answer.
I needed a plan. I had to find a reason not to quit what I was just about to start. My plan was to buy a lot of expensive stuff—running shoes, tights, tees and all the accessories I would need.
It must be a girly thing but I guess it worked for me… it would be a waste of money shopping for things I would not be using! And shop I did, although Yong told me not to buy so much just in case I might not want to run anymore after my first try. But that was precisely the plan—I must not quit!
I just wanted to shop and start running. And so I loaded up with my running gear!
I began by brisk walking and then by running short distances every day.
A week after I started running, Yong signed me up for the Pink October Run 5K on Oct. 19, 2008. My plan was to just go slow and to walk when I get really tired. Yong asked Dr. Rosan Trani (Yong’s friend, a doctor who is also a running enthusiast just like him) to run with me. Yong assured me that I won’t be slowing her since she was still recovering from an injury and will need to take it slow too. Thanks to Dr. Trani, I finished my first 5k run in 45 minutes!
Despite Dr. Trani’s injury, I knew she could still finish it a lot faster than me so I reminded myself to refrain from walking kasi nakakahiya naman.
But the truth was naiiyak na ako sa hirap at pagod! I was beginning to feel like a real runner and felt like I was going really fast! Hahaha!
My love and passion for running really started that day after crossing the finish line. It was then I realized I had the heart for running after all.
To those who feel and think that running is boring, try joining fun runs or races, the feeling of crossing the finish line is indescribable! Runner’s high talaga! It is what makes running so addicting! You’d want to join more races after it and do better each time! You start looking forward to training because you now have a goal—to set a personal record!
After the Pink October Run, Yong and I started training together and because of running, we had more time for each other, we’re always together. And because he is a much faster runner, I actually improved much faster just by trying to train with him.
In January and February 2009, I joined two more fun runs and managed to make it to the top five in the Cebu Rotary 6K Run. Ang sarap ng feeling!
Indeed my discipline in training was paying off!
My most memorable races
1. Pink October Run—My very first race. My love and passion for running started that day in October of 2008. I know it was only a fun run but all runners start this way.
After that, I started training hard for the other races and saw how my time improved by setting a personal record each time. Actually with these types of races, you’re not really competing with others, your true competition is yourself. You want to beat your time in every distance, in every race. Winning it will be just a bonus.
2. DocFit Run (March 1, 2009)—My first 10k race. I was so nervous. I had never tried running more than six kilometers. Yong told me to just relax and enjoy the run. No pressure. I said OK but in my heart, I still wanted to do a sub one hour for my first 10k. I finished it in 57:34! I was so happy and could hardly wait to join more races. It’s just amazing how running brought out the competitive and the goal-achiever side of me again. It was just like my Bagong Kampeon days when I was a lot younger and wanted so much to be a singing champion.
I’ve become a stronger person physically, mentally and emotionally… that’s what running did to me and more. Running is like my gift to myself--no more cranky and moody days because of dieting and starving myself silly, I no longer feel weak and I eat with no guilt and yes, losing weight is no longer a major struggle.
I just simply run as fast as I could. And let me tell you that every second counts and means a lot to a runner. In my case, I had a previous best of 57 minutes and 34 seconds in the 10K, then 57 minutes and 16 seconds in the next.
And boy was that such a winning moment for me!
3. Big Sur International Marathon (April 26, 2009)--I didn’t join the full marathon. Yong and Doc Peter Mancao did. I was not yet ready since my longest run then was a 15k training run at the Cebu City Sports Complex with Yong and trainer Charlie Berberio. I signed up for the 10.6 mile walk. Yup! I just checked WALK on the registration website hahaha! But you can run it if you want to and that’s what I did.
It was really memorable because I ran it with my brother, my Kuya Jomar. He had no training for it and I signed him up for that distance. I told him to just walk with me and everyone else there would be walking, enjoying and taking pictures of the breathtaking view of the mountain.
What’s funny was I got so eager to run (and not walk anymore) that when the starting gun was fired, I ran and tried to overtake a lot of walkers. It was crowded but I was too excited and was already getting the hang of it, when my Kuya accidentally stepped on my left foot and I fell, hitting both of my knees on the rough road. My CW-X compression tights almost got torn after just one kilometer!
Accidents like that could happen in running. When I realized, the clock was ticking and I just lost two minutes from crying (ang sakit kaya!), I started running again. I had a goal of running six minutes per kilometer for that 17K distance. I overheard one woman say, “Isn’t she the one who fell down a while ago?”
What that lady said made me feel good about myself. There were sharp pains on both my knees while I was running, but I thought “If I could still run like this after that fall then I am still OK.”
The course was not easy, but it was very scenic! The sights were amazing and the weather was great! The spectator and organizational support for this race was awesome, with crowds cheering for everyone they see. Some even called me by my name but only because my bib had my name on it!
I crossed the finish line in 1:42:48 (which was within my goal). I was just thankful to God that I did not get badly injured or hit my face on the ground. And my Kuya, by the way, did so well and had a great time of 1 hour and 59 minutes! My only remembrance were the tiny scars on my knees due to the deep wounds from the fall--I am actually proud of them because every time I see them, it reminds me of how dedicated and determined I was to become a true runner. An average runner that runs with her HEART!!! (To be concluded tomorrow)