Dear Dr. Fritz,
I hope you are doing fine. I am writing to you because I feel that my husband is cheating on me. I still don’t have any evidence. I can smell something fishy and I can see red flags. But, I wanted to know the signs that my husband is cheating.
Please help me. Thanks for your reply.
Margaret of Britania
Dear Margaret of Britania,
Here are some well-known signs of cheating:
1. Overprotective of his electronic devices
This could be his cellphone or laptop, or tablet that he wants to protect from you – to the extent that he brings the gadget with him even if he goes to the bathroom or comfort room. It is just that he doesn’t want you to know the people that he is talking to or whom they are with.
2. There are times when you can’t reach him
Sometimes, your partner just simply disappears without you knowing where they have been. This could be because he doesn’t want you to know who he is with.
3. His level of sexual desire differs
I know that you might think that those who are cheating wouldn’t have time to have sex with their partner. Ohhh, you might be wrong. As a matter of fact, some cheaters would feel energized in bed that they would want sex more often or may even want to have different kinds of sex with you.
4. Their explanations are not consistent
Well, lying is really hard and some would really fall easily, especially if they are hurled with different kinds of questions that they are not familiar with. The truth is, even the best liars would still fall because of inconsistency because they might be under stress.
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