Please call me Alice. I have been married for three years now. But, I am beginning to suspect that my husband is cheating. I just don't want to look like I am suspecting without valid basis. Please tell me some warning signs that my partner is cheating.

Thank you and hope to hear from you soon.

Alice of Wonderland

Dear Alice of Wonderland,

The truth is, if you suspect that your partner is cheating, chances are you might be right. But, if you are looking for some valid basis, more often than not, you might not be able to find it, since a cheater will always try her or his best to look after her or his back so as not to be caught dead. Don't worry, dear, there are still some tail tell signs that cheating is out there and waiting to eat you up. Here are some:

1. Your partner is so protective with his electronic devices

This could be his phone or computer. Well, the internet now seems to be the dating hub for cheaters. Now, if your husband is soooo protective of his phone or computer, chances are, he doesn't want you to know who he is talking to.

2. There are times that you can't reach him

If there are times when you can't reach your partner and you don't have any clue where he is, then, probably, he is with someone he doesn't want you to know about.

Well, as much as there are more issues to talk about, then, let me finish this in my next issue. Until then!

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