A realization I have come to recently is that many people suffer silently and in solitude. Oftentimes, it isn’t even their choice why they choose to be silent and alone. As someone who wants to be able to understand and guide people better, I went on a deep dive to figure out why people could possibly act in such a way. Though there could be many factors for people being the way they are, growth is never possible.
A word I learned recently is “neurodivergent” which basically means people whose minds work differently than normal. This made me think that people prefer silence and solitude because that’s just who they are. This made me think that a factor could simply be one’s Heaven Luck, which is one’s innate characteristics and one of the factors of human success. Despite people working differently than us, this does not mean one is working incorrectly. One must be supportive and wish for only the best despite the differences.
Another factor that I believe is one’s environment, which relates to Earth Luck. It is possible that the surroundings of a person molded or sculpted a person to have a silent and solitary personality because it is what was needed. A thing that Earth Luck teaches me is that the bad times don’t last forever and if it seemingly does, a change of environment does the trick as well. With any positive and supportive environment, one can be anything one wants to be.
Despite the last two factors being the main ones I have thought of, another minor factor I realized is that people don’t believe they are capable of change. Years of believing that they can’t escape their cage has made people think it’s them forever. This simple way of thinking is why people can’t escape despite wanting to change. Their hard work, which is their Man Luck, is suppressed even if they want to change because of years believing they can’t and no support.
Everyone has something about themselves that they’d want to change. Even if it is a small or big thing, support is needed to do it. Though people may never tell us how they’d want to change for the better, the best we can do is be there for those in our lives who want to change. Although the idea of only needed oneself to grow has been floating in this generations, the help received from others can be a great blessing.