Life often beats us down, doesn’t it? With how it hits, it feels as if one must stay guarded to pad their hard blows. Unfortunately, this guarded stay makes us do things one wouldn’t otherwise.
Snapping at loved ones, having dwindling patience, and acting dismissive are just some of the things one may do. After a long while, one begins to think that one can’t change. With the long list of people hurt, one may feel that one does not deserve to, but I believe that good change is something all deserves to have.
While many factors cause one to act differently to how one sees oneself, I believe there to be 3 main ones, which are called the factors of Human Success. The first one is Heaven Luck. This is your Destiny chart or your Life’s Blueprint. There, the characteristic one has a tendency to adopt is revealed. Though hidden, these negative attitudes all exist in all of us and knowing what these all are is the key to managing and regulating these unexplored emotions.
Though lying dormant in everyone, it is often the environment that brings that out. This relates to another factor of Human Success called Earth Luck. This is also called Feng Shui and it relates to utilizing the energy of the environment to benefit you. However, bad energy can circulate an area which simply brings out the worst sides of someone. By dwelling in better spaces and positive surroundings, the high walls one has built may slowly start to be torn down.
These two factors are definitely important; however, at the end of the day, our own hands are what make the difference. The last factor of Human Success is our Man Luck and it refers to our hard work. However, hard work isn’t pointless trial and error, but it involves instilling discipline, taking accountability, and taking the steps to be better even if one feels paralyzed. Hard work is often oversimplified, but when all things are said, hard work is what makes or breaks a goal from being achieved.
No matter how far one has fallen, it is never too late to be better. While one can’t undo what has been done, sometimes the best way to atone is to be someone who would never do it again. We are always deserving of the opportunity to be a better person, and while life makes us bad people, it is never too late to try again. All the guards one has put up may protect us from life’s hard hits, but it also prevents us from its loving embrace, and no one deserves to not experience life’s joys.