Fathers don’t always say much. But when they love, they love in languages often overlooked yet deeply felt. This Father’s Day — or any day — if he still struggles to say “I love you,” that’s OK. Chances are, he already has. You just have to know how to listen.
Here are just some of the love languages we’ve come to realize only dads can do best:
Hatid-sundo
There’s something comforting about knowing your dad is waiting outside, engine running, ready to bring you home safely. Rain or shine, early morning or late at night, he’ll be there — no questions asked.
Builder, fixer, hero
Dads have this unspoken oath: If it’s broken, I’ll fix it. It doesn’t matter if you’ve already moved out, if your faucet is leaky, your light switch busted, or even your spirit broken after a bad day, he’ll show up with a toolbox in hand.
Food is love
A quick drive to your favorite eatery, an early-morning market run, or a surprise dinner just because you were craving something? Dad heard you — even when you didn’t say a word.
The BBQ dates
Rain or shine, birthday or not, Dad will fire up the grill like he’s cooking for royalty. And let’s be honest: No one makes barbecue quite like Dad.
Pasalubong king
For children of overseas Filipino workers, love sometimes comes in balikbayan boxes. Chocolates. Toys. That hoodie you mentioned in passing. Dads remember. Dads deliver.
The couch bonding
Watching movies side by side, cheering for rival teams, or just sharing a beer in silence — dads make even the quiet moments feel full.
The ATM you never have to beg
He’ll grumble, for sure. But when does it really matter? Dad’s got you. Every time.
Life advice
A five-minute ride can turn into a TED Talk, full of life lessons, random trivia and outdated jokes. But deep down, you know he means well. He always does.
Provider first
Even when he’s tired. Even when you didn’t notice. Dad was working behind the scenes to make sure the lights stayed on, the fridge stayed full and you had what you needed to chase your dreams.
Personal bodyguard
From walking you to the car to scanning the room like a seasoned agent when you bring someone home, Dad doesn’t play when it comes to your safety.
Acts of service, always
Gassing up your car. Renewing your license. Reminding you to take your meds. Dads are lowkey personal assistants in disguise.