Foreword: This is the continuation of our response to Alice of Wonderland on her concern on the possibility of her husband cheating.
DEAR Alice of Wonderland,
Alright, let's move on. Here are more of the signs that you've been looking for.
3. His sexual desire with you changes
While you might think that your partner will lose his sexual desire with you, it may not be true. On the contrary, some cheaters will feel more sexually energized with the partner they are cheating with. This could be to cover up his misdeeds and hopefully, to make you less suspicious of his extra marital affairs.
4. His explanations are inconsistent
If your husband has inconsistent explanations of where he is, or what he is doing or how did he knew someone whom you are suspecting that he is cheating with, well, it is most probably because he is lying.
5. His schedule have changed
Your husband's schedule have suddenly changed to working late as a new normal, even if his job doesn't require it, then, most probably, he is lying.
6. His friends are uncomfortable with you
His friends knew the real deal before you do. So, if their attitudes and behavior change towards you, and you don't understand why. Then, probably, they know something that you don't.
7. Sudden change in his spending habits
Large cash withdrawals are a big flag.
8. He falsely accused you of cheating
He maybe projecting to you on what he is really doing.
9. He finds faults in everything you do.
If he does this, then, maybe he is the problem.
Well, there you have it. Hope that helps. Good luck!
Dr. Fritz
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Dr. Fritz Legarde Espedilla is an aesthetic dermatologist and surgeon and clinical sexologist. She is also trained in hypnotherapy and Medical Acupuncture. For your questions, you may send them to Dear Dr. Fritz, c/oSunstar-Davao Publishing Inc., Ebro-Pelayo Building 1, Juan Luna St., Davao City, or e-mail them to dokfritz@yahoo.com. If you don’t wish your letter to be published, we regret that we cannot answer them. Thank you for your understanding.