IF WE recount the first story of a gift, it always starts with creation – when “God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.”
The next known story of a gift in the Bible is the offerings of Cain and Abel, the sons of Adam and Eve. Cain offered fruits to God, while Abel offered the firstborn of his flock. God regarded Abel’s offering favorably because it was given with faith and from the best of his resources.
Then we know what happened next: Cain killed Abel, marking the first murder story. But the story of gifts continues to this day.
The people we have in our lives and those we meet are gifts - people themselves are gifts.
Our family gives us the will to live long and strive for more. Our friends bring color to our lives.
Regardless of the circumstances and interactions, the people we meet daily always have something to teach or offer us if we are open to receiving it.
A customer who visits your workplace to share his concerns may provide you with an opportunity to offer your knowledge or skills or give insight into potential issues.
An old friend who surprises you with her presence may bring back memories you have almost forgotten and help rekindle friendships.
A stranger who approaches you confidently may not be a threat; instead, if you listen closely, his stories and insights can invigorate your senses.
The people on the plane you board are also included in your prayers. You pray for everyone to be protected and for a smooth landing. You realize that the problem of one passenger can affect everyone on board, teaching you to pray not just for yourself but for all.
Everyone has something to teach or give us. People are gifts because of the unique value, love, and purpose they bring into our lives.
When others recognize our natural skills and talents and see the best in us, we are motivated to reach our full potential.
We learn to acknowledge their recognition with humility and appreciation. We discover qualities in ourselves that we may have previously overlooked.
When others hurt us, we become stronger. When they highlight our weaknesses, we are inspired to improve.
These experiences provide us with opportunities for reflection. Did I do something to deserve this treatment? Was I careless with my thoughts and actions? Did I not give my best?
These interactions encourage us to reflect on our personal growth, emotional well-being, and overall success. This helps us prioritize what truly matters in our lives.
People are gifts, regardless of how or why they come into our lives. They enrich us or impart valuable lessons.
As we start another year, let us value one another. We are each other’s gift.
